Arguing About Empathy

I do not engage in arguments that are not looking for common understanding, which would, of course, cancel the entire X-universe, but I have been intrigued to watch the hubbub over empathy. Rightwing political pastors jumped on the anti-empathy bandwagon (now, that is a strange one!). Reminds me of a pastor my mother told me about once who, after being criticized for being uncaring and not tending to his flock offered the explanation, “I was not given the gift of mercy.” I would at least consider in that case another line of work—used cars or televangelism come to mind. A … Continue reading Arguing About Empathy

Welcome to Regrets

“Welcome to Regrets” is a song that I wrote in 2014 with the great songwriter Pat Terry and my daughter Katie Furr, who gave me the original idea.  One day she said, “Dad, I have an idea for a song—a tattoo parlor in Brooklyn where old hipsters can go to get their tattoos removed.”  Great idea!  So I set out to write it.  Originally, I went for funny, and wrote all the “droopy tattoo” ideas you can imagine.  When I pitched this to Pat when we were together for him to lead a workshop, he suggested it had some rich … Continue reading Welcome to Regrets

Pandemic Haiku

When one day disap- -pears into the next without signposts hope erodes.   Stop each day to cheer The heroes leaving work to Photo by cottonbro on Pexels.com Rest in dreadful fears.   Nightmares rise up now Inflame the stupid hearers With disinformation.   Carrying virus Sharing death without knowing The Fall incarnate   Fear of each other Loss of all human embrace Alone together   Glued to devices Exhaustion without labor Unable to sleep.   Thrown out of routine The crisis awakens us To innovations.   Separated by the fear of death we cling to love we have within. … Continue reading Pandemic Haiku